It’s been awhile since the last time I updated this page. I have been so busy with life. A lot of things happened since that major breakup – good and bad.
2 years ago, my 5-year relationship ended. It was so unexpected. I never imagined someone could treat you like garbage and replace you with someone they never even met. SHIT HAPPENS as they always say. I was so miserable it took me almost a year to finally accept everything. I was so desperate during the first months and started going out with a lot of women ( well.. with limitations. You already know.)
And then I QUIT MY JOB. I don’t know what came to me. I just felt the need to quit. I was just home the entire 4 months. Spent all my money in the casino. EAT, SLEEP, BOOZE, CASINO… REPEAT. That’s basically how my life went at that time.
Reality hit me hard big time. Then I asked myself “WHY THE F ARE YOU DOING THIS TO YOUR LIFE?”.
The next day, I updated my CV and started applying for jobs. After almost a month, I finally got a phone call from the Company I really wanted to work in. The salary offer was just right…. I GOT THE JOB!
It felt so differently on my first day. I’m finally back in the Call Center Industry. People were all staring at me. I didn’t really pay attention though. I didn’t want to have friends that time. But the Miss Congeniality in me couldn’t stand being a lonely girl. I MADE FRIENDS… yay.
One morning, I invited a friend to get breakfast in the pantry. We started talking about ourselves. Suddenly, she told me she was gay. I was so surprised and asked myself “Why is she telling me this? I didn’t even ask”. It felt so awkward. And then I just said. “Really?” LOL.
Few moments later, I was so comfortable I finally told her I was gay, too! That was the first time I ever told someone about my sexuality (not to mention I just met her!). It just felt so right. That’s when our closeness began. We talked about girls everyday and her 15 year relationship. I wasn’t over my ex, I realized. She became my GO TO person everytime I miss her.
I met her friends. I thought they were cool because all of em are gays. We hanged out almost everyday!
Sometime in July last year. I saw some new employees and one girl got my attention real quick! OMG! Hearts everywhere! LOL That was the first and the last time I saw her. :(((
3 weeks later, there she was! Walking towards the office’s turnstile. SHE WAS SO CUTE I WANTED TO MARRY HER! LOL I looked her up on facebook. I was so disappointed when I found out she was already in a relationship. WHY! I still sent her a friend request though (sneaky sneaky). SHE ACCEPTED!
It all started with 1 Facebook message from her.
To cut the story short, We were officially a couple on September 10, 2016. We live together since day 1. I am still so inlove with her and we just turned 1 year! Can you imagine that?
This is what I consider my first ever REAL relationship because the previous ones were if not Long Distance, only lasted for weeks. I was never really in a relationship were I spend most of my time with my partner. I’ve tried that a couple of times but never worked.
THIS MUST BE LOVE you guys!
I will tell you more about our relationship on my next blog.
I have a question…. I’m thinking doing VLOGS cos its the new trend LOL. WOULD YOU SUBSCRIBE TO MY CHANNEL? You will see me, my girl and our lovely Cats and a dog!
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